OUR SRI LANKAN ADVENTURE!

Thursday, 20 November 2014

Last Monday night, Matt and I hopped on a plane to Sri Lanka for our very first holiday together.

Of course this was preceded by the obligatory airport photo with the Bear of Freedom.

Nobody quite knows why there is a giant bear in the middle of the airport, but all we know is that he symbolises escape from the sandpit, and a picture with him is a must!

We landed in Colombo the following morning. We picked up the hire car and hit the road, following Sat Nav onto the highway, and me tracking our journey by map. Smooth sailing so far!

Before too long, we came off the blissful highway and Sat Nav lead us into the heart of absolute chaos - the roads of Sri Lanka are officially mental!

We suddenly found ourselves sharing the road with not only other cars, but people, tuk tuks, mopeds, cows, dogs, all the while being overtaken at high speed by buses driven by utter lunatics, with everybody simultaneously honking their horns with impatience. Manic! I genuinely thought Doha had the worst driving conditions in the world but Sri Lanka was ten times more bonkers.

After many near misses with all of the above mentioned vehicles / animals / pedestrians, we finally made it back on to the highway and from there it was smooth sailing all the way down to the coastal road from Galle to Koggala, where we were staying.

We stayed at The Fortress hotel which I won't say too much about (other than it was wonderful) as I plan to do a full review post next week. Our room was amazing, with the worlds comfiest bed, biggest bath and hugest shower!

Settled in and unpacked, we headed down to the pool to get the lay of the land.

The infinity pool overlooking the Indian Ocean was stunning, and it was here we spent the best part of our holiday. Every morning after breakfast (where I ate my body weight in croissants and scones with jam whilst Matt tucked into healthy bowls of fruit...easy to see who's the fatty in this relationship!) we would set ourselves up by the pool and enjoy a morning of glorious sunshine before the afternoon thunderstorm. Unfortunately it did rain at about lunchtime every day for a few hours but it really didn't spoil the holiday at all. It was quite fun attempting to ride out the storm tucked under towels and an umbrella before ending up completely soaked and making a mad dash for shelter!

On one of the sunnier afternoons, we took a walk down the beautiful and endless stretch of beach outside our hotel.

We had drinks and dinner at the hotel restaurant, Pepper, every night. There were no other restaurants locally to the hotel, and Pepper was really lovely with an ever changing menu and themed buffet evenings so there was plenty of variety. We ate overlooking the pool and the Indian Ocean, most nights with a lightening storm lighting up the sky and the waves in the distance.

On one of the days we took a trip to Udawalawe national park to go on the elephant safari. It was such an amazing day! We saw elephants, crocodiles, monkeys, cobras, bats, lizards, buffalo, jackals, eagles, parrots (although I was always the last to see everything. Our guide would point something out, Matt would see it, and I'd spend the next half a minute saying 'where?! Where are you looking?! What is it?!' Until I'd finally see it too. My guide said I didn't have 'safari eyes'!)

How are your 'safari eyes' - can you spot the crocodile?!

We also had the opportunity to visit an amazing temple en route to the safari, Weherahena Temple.

Shoes off at the door, we were led around the underground temple, it's walls carved and painted with 20,000 pieces of artwork, depicting the history of the Buddhist religion.

The most impressive part, is the way the temple is built up and around a 39 meter tall Buddha! You can walk right up until head level, but the best view is from below.

On our final day, we stopped at the turtle hatchery down the road from our hotel, on our way to the airport.

Unfortunately this fella was caught in a fishing net and had to have his flipper (flipper?) amputated so he is a permanent resident, but he was happy enough and popped up out of the water to wave us off on our travels.

It was such a lovely, relaxing and stress free holiday, and even the fact that I had food poisoning for the last two days didn't taint it too much!

Now I'm back to reality in the desert, craving the sound of the waves crashing in the rocks, and wishing I was coming home to this every day. Take me back!

Have you been to Sri Lanka?

 

WHY I TOOK A BREAK FROM BLOGGING

Wednesday, 19 November 2014

I decided to take a couple of weeks away from writing my blog. Whilst my short break from the blogosphere was the right decision and one I'm glad I made, I must admit that I have really missed it. Writing my blog is, after all, a hobby, so the absence of this from my weeks has really been noticeable to me.

There were a couple of reasons why I decided to take some time out. The last couple of months, since I came back to Doha after my summer break, have been incredibly hard. Major frictions, tensions and stress in both my work and home life resulted in suffering from severe anxiety, to the point where I would come home from work and shut myself in my room for the night, to avoid any further stress or conflict. Apart from spending what time I could with Matt when he wasn't working, I stopped socialising. I didn't really want to face anyone. A few key friends have been very supportive - recognising what's going on and doing what they can to get me out of the house. My home was no longer my sanctuary away from the things that were upsetting me, meaning the anxiety just got worse, so to those friends who have helped me to snap out of my 'social recluse' phase, I am very grateful!

That isn't who I am, or who I want to be. My work stresses will probably always be there, but outside of work I am a fun loving girl who loves the company of both my man and my friends in equal parts, not a complete hermit!

As a result of the above, it has meant that I have had absolutely nothing to blog about, as iv done nothing to blog about! In the world of lifestyle blogging, 'I got up, I went to work, I came home, I watched 24 with Matt, I went to sleep' absolutely doesn't cut it. I want my content to be the kind of posts I would want to read myself, and I certainly wouldn't want to read about that!

Which brings me on to the other reason why I took a break from blogging. Probably in part due to everything going on in my personal/work life, I lost my way a bit on the blogging front. Or I thought I had lost my way. It came to light that people from work were reading my blog, as I had started to expand my readership via posting my blog link on Facebook and Twitter. I'd heard nasty and negative comments made by colleagues about a blog written by someone we know, and it made me very self conscious that my writing was now up for judgement too. That might sound silly - as a blogger, or as anyone uploading content to the Internet for all to see, we are opening ourselves up for judgement. I just wasn't ready for that judgement to come from those that my blog was and is not aimed towards.

I started my blog for my friends and family back home to be able to follow my adventures once I had moved to Doha. Not only limited to that, it was my place on the Internet to write about the things I enjoy - product reviews, restaurants, events, anything and everything. I am a lifestyle blogger, and all of these things fall in to elements that make up my life, as they are the things I enjoy. I take inspiration from posts I enjoy from other lifestyle/beauty bloggers. If I didn't like their content, I wouldn't read their blogs.

So as I say, I thought I had lost my way. I was writing posts about the contents of my handbag, which are posts/vlogs I enjoy, whilst in the back of my mind wondering what mocking comments might be being made by the people I work with.

After a bit of time away, I have remembered that this blog is for me (first and foremost, it is my hobby), it is for my family and friends (so they can see how I'm getting on living abroad - my mum is the number one fan of my blog!), and it is for anyone who understands lifestyle blogging and enjoys the content that goes with it (like my lovely followers, and the people who email/tweet me if they like my posts). I hadn't lost my way at all, I'd just lost my confidence.

As I write this post, I'm sitting overlooking the Indian Ocean, on one of my final days in Sri Lanka, although when I post this il no doubt be back in the sandpit that is Qatar. This holiday came at just the right time, and when I return to Doha I hope everything will be different. Circumstances will have changed, and I hope with that my anxiety eases off and I can start to enjoy my time in Doha a lot more. In the meantime, I'm off to enjoy the rest of my holiday - I look forward to blogging about it once I'm home :)